So, here’s the situation. I’m a woman, and I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for two years. We love each other, and things are good between us. I moved to another country for work, and when I got here, I reached out to an old classmate who was a close friend of mine back in high school. We hadn’t talked in about seven years, but I knew he’d been living in this country since then.
We’ve only chatted a few times—maybe three or four conversations—and all we talk about is stuff like our old classmates and memories from back then. Nothing deep or personal.
But here’s the thing: I’ve been having these dreams about him. Like, a lot. In the dreams, we’re having fun together, going on dates, and even having sexual moments. Just this morning, I woke up from another dream about him.
I feel so guilty because I don’t have any feelings for him in real life, and I’m committed to my boyfriend. But I can’t figure out why he keeps showing up in my dreams like this. Is my brain trying to tell me something, or is it just random? Why does he keep popping up in my subconscious? I’d love to hear what y’all think.
